P*tangina ka!

Have you ever cared for someone so much pero pag nagkakabullshit-bullshit na ang buhay nya, pati ikaw mumurahin nya?

Well... I DID!!!

Let's Not Bring the Past Back..

memories...

memories of the past..

sweet memories of the past..

memories na masarap sana balik balikan...

pero hnd talaga pwede...

the time you were once contented with what you have.

simple yet fulfilling..

until...

ikaw dn mismo sumira noon..

at ang ending ng sweet memories na naaalala mo...

sweet memories na neri-reminisce mo

is sakit...

ouch!

Kasi nga naman,.. ang TANGA TANGA MO! >:)

Sakit sa Bangs!

Nakakainis na.

Sobrang Nakakairita na.

Sakit na talaga sa bangs!

Hnd nama siguro masama magkaroon ng tamang hinala na tama naman talaga dba?


at sasabihan ka na lahat nalang pinapakialaman mo...

lahat na gagawin ay kung anu lang ang gusto mo.

na parang nagdidikta kana sa lahat ng galaw nya..

when in fact ang ginagawa mo  is para naman sa ikabubuti nya, Masama pa ba yun?

at kung sasabihan mo tigilan kana para hindi mo sya pakialaman hindi nya kayang gawin.

kukulitin at kukulitin ka parin.

Nakakbwisit isipin na parang naging mayabang na masyado dahil mahal mo sya.

pwes dati yun.. ng bangag kapa.


nakakairita na ang pagiging masyado nyang feeling.

na kung sa isip mo lang, e wla naman talagang kwentang pahalagahan.

nakakabullshit kasi kahit sa anung galit mo, at dahil nangangailangan sya ng tulong hindi mo kayang talikuran..

for a reason na naaawa ka or sadyang mabait kalang talaga.

na sana kung ayaw nyang pinapakialaman sya pwes tantanan kana rin sana nya..

pagsinabi mo na tama na.. sana tama na. na sana.. alam nya na tama na,

kung aasarin ka nya at iiyak iyak ka..

pagtatawanan kapa...


pwes.. sa oras ma ito na inaasar ka nya hnd nya alam na  sa tagal na ng panahon at sa sobrang paulit ulit na pangyayari hindi na nya alam na nagiging manhid kana pala.

na naiisip mo na sayang lang pala pag-aksayahan ang luha sa mga taong wlang kwenta.

ang bwisit pa ay kung hindi kana nagbibigay pansin or ffort saka mangungulit lalo.

na akala siguro nya na ang sinasabi mong titigil kana hanggang salita lang.

actually gusto mo na talaga, hindi mo lang magawa kasi parang tinatalian ka nya at hinihila ka pabalik...


Kasalanan naman talaga siguro na maging to the rescue lagi.

Na sa tuwing may kailangan o may problema ikaw ang sasalo...

Na sa oras na gipit ikaw ang tatakbohan.

actually yung reason na anjan kapa ay hindi siguro dahil mahal mo sya,

kundi dahil naaawa ka, na bukod sayo, wla ng ibang tutulong sa kanya.

CHRISTMAS GIFT REQUIREMENTS

To all my INAANAK:

Please secure the following on or before Christmas:

1.Original copy of your Baptismal Certificate.
2.Birth Certificate (NSO Authenticated)
3.Picture of your Baptismal with me, of course.
4.Exact time and date of your Baptismal.
5.Should know my complete name and address.
6.NBI Clearance of your Mother and Father.

To all my FRIENDS:

Please secure the following on or before Christmas:

1.Picture of you with me as proof.
2.Exact time and date and location we first met.
3.Should know my complete name and address.
4.Should know my birth date.
4.NBI Clearance
5.SSS ID
6.TIN ID
7. Birth Certificate (NSO Authenticated)


To all my RELATIVES:

Please secure the following on or before Christmas:

1.Birth Certificate (NSO Authenticated)
2.Picture of you with me as proof.
3.Should know my complete name and address.
4.Should know my birth date.

5.Should know my mother's maiden name.
6.Should have a family tree showing how we are related.
7. NBI Clearance of both parents.
8. NBI Clearance
6. SSS ID
7:TIN ID

NOTE:
Incomplete requirements, NO GIFT! :)

Ferrero and Marshmallow Flower Bouquet

For this December, I'm really on a very super duper tight budget. You have to think of people you need to give gifts to. You got cousins, aunts, uncles, parents, siblings, godchildren, grandparents other relatives, office mates and friends etc.. My head really aches thinking of them all. Having that long list and  that super duper tight budget. So instead of thinking too much.. I'm planning on giving ferrero flowers this holiday, instead of thinking about specific gifts to give out. Either just a single stem or maybe three or more. =). The only hassle would be making them, arranging and buying of materials.

Its unique and really cute. I think its also good for any gender, since its chocolate and of course! EDIBLE!
I believe it's the thought that counts anyway, and beggars can't be choosers. ^_^

Here are some of the bouquets I made before:

Planned but not so planned Wedding Shower

Nag plan kami ng surprise wedding shower para sa former officemate namin. And Mission Accomplished yesterday!

The first plan was last saturday pa dapat, ka kunchaba syempre ang kanyang fiance. Problem was, ang hirap magpatugma ng schedule. parang ako lang yata ang hindi busy e. and dapat, eat all you can somewhere north with videoke para na rin sa openning ng mahahalay na gifts, then spa after para makapagrelax. pero hindi natuloy kasi marami ang hindi available..

Plan B, Dec 13, kahapon. dahil ako ang tutulong sa pag gawa ng ferrero and mallow bouquets ng mga abay, ninang, flower ladies and of course ng bride, pinilit ko sya na mamili ng materials on the 13th. after ng office. Muntik pa sana hindi matuloy kasi the day before nagtext sya na move daw kasi busy sya. sooo??? PANIC MODE! buti nalang at nagawan ng paraan.. lahat ng kasinungalingan na pwede gamitin. GO!!!! hehehe. OT ako next week e, marami ako activities wednesday to sunday.. etc etc.. ang bad ko. =(. matinding urgent need lang kasi. I need to lie. white lies. pwede naman daw. =).

Meet up at SM Makati.

kasama nya si Sam, isang officemate dn namin. sya lang yung babae that day. i mean lalake. pero cge.. lalake na...

Bumili kmi ng alternative chocolate kesa sa Ferrero. and we saw the Visacar. Don't know how it taste like but it's half a price cheaper than Ferrero, and really looks the same. Copy Cat! but well, it's the looks that matters. hehehe. tanung ako ng tanong sa mga sales lady, may VISCARA PO BA KAYO???
mali pala.. VISACAR. hahaha. buti nalang naalala ni manong salesman.. so search for VISACAR. and thankfully! Meron pa onting natira!

After ng chocolate umikot pa kami to find the other materials needed. Tingin-tingin sa mga store, and kinokontak ko rin ang mga kasama ko na magseset ng dinner. What we planned was Mann Hann in Glorrietta 5, and bad thing! Wla na palang Mann Hann sa Glorrietta 5, sabi ni manong guard Mann Yann nalang sa The Link. Kaso, ang na send out sa email na venue was Glorietta 5. So tawag-tawag naman ulit to arrange and look for a venue.. ang ending... North Park nalang. No choice.. nagtitipid din kami. hehehe.Habang nag aarrange ng order si Janice at si Elenita, ako naman at si Sam ay iniikot si ChiQui, yung bride to be. 

Off to G5, sa national bookstore to find other materials para sa bouquet, habang nag-aantay sa signal nila Eleyn para para kumain. naikot na namin ang buong G5, and at last! Nag-aya na kami ni Sam na kumain. So I said, may titingnan lang ako, habang dere-deretcho sa North Park at sila naman ay sumusunod sakin.

and nagkita na kaming 6! Wla pa dn idea si ChiQui. Maganda lang kasi hindi sya matanong na tao. and until ini-serve na yung food. and we said na this is your Bridal Shower... (Sayang wlang lalaking sumasayaw.. wla kaming ma hire e.) And ang dami naming food, yung isa kasi hnd nakarating, busy sa career. ang isa hahabol pa. hinohold kasi ng boss. (SILA NA ANG BUSY!! Bitter?) After ng dinner nag aya kami for Center Stage, and doon, nag videoke! mura lang pala ang room 250 per hour. room at videoke lang yun. pero dahil marami kaming take out from north park, ang kakapal ng muka humiram ng plate at tinidor. abah. binigayan naman kasi. (poor much). pero umorder na dn kami ng drinks. nakakahiya naman kasi (may hiya nga kasi kami). kain ng food ang kakarating lang na si Maah at cousin ni Ja na sinama na namin. kain ng cake. then gift giving ng mga mahahalay na regalo..

sa line up ng gifts:

kotz - 2 pcs panty, isang t-back na pink na may itim na lace, may butas dn sa gitna ng pwede. kung parasaan ang butas... hind ko alam. at isang stringed screen panty. di tali ang dalawang gilid. pede rin sya gamitin pang sala ng niyog. I think very effective yun.

milbert - ito ang may pinaka mahalay na gift. shower towel. see picture.. yan yun. para sa ulo. ang halay dba? yun lang ang susuotin nya.. at wla ng iba.. yun lang talaga. ulo lang ang may cover. sabi ko nga magpares ng medjas para end to end ang balot. hehehe..

Maah - red screen nighties with t-back combo. yung tipong.. nagsuot kapa? sana wla na? hehehe. sabi nga namin maganda yun as summer wear. Pilipinas kasi tayo.. mainit.. so yun.. presko..

Eleyn -  pink screen nighties with t-back combo. iba na namn ang style kesa unang screen nighties. may dagdag na ribbon at mga tali-tali.. cute.. for summer wear dn to. alam namin pag ito suot nya lagi sa magiging condo nila, d sila gagastos ng malaki sa aircon.. presco dn kasi to. at take note.. pede sya pang gala ha..

Janice - black screen nighties with t-back combo. ito mas manipis pa kesa dun sa dalawang una. pa revealing na pa revealing ang gift. Maganda.. classy.. syempre.. Itim. at manipis.. parang may conver lang kunyari pero useless parin. inshort wlang kwenta.. pero sabi nila.. atleast dagdag thrill.. kita mo na nga, pero may huhubarin kapa. parang 2 steps away from the prize.

and we bought her a blow job drink! sayang d nya naubos. lasang Robitussin daw kasi. hehehe. hindi sya umabot sa baileys part. anyways... yun na yun...

Sa January 7 na pala ang kasal. and DAMN!!! nakakasira ng diet na buwan! wla pa ang kasal d na kami kasya sa damit. Christmas party dito, dinner doon, maraming eat all you can na libre, hnd pwede tumanggi sa grasya.. =(. ayoko mag effort. MASARAP KUMAIN TUWING DECEMBER!!!!!!

Wish us luck!

Boss Kasi

DRAFT

Have you had any experience with suck ass bosses?

Well, I did. TWICE! and same Company.

 Sa previous company ko ito.

Yung tipong very unprofessional ang treatment?

Yung tipong mararamdaman mo ang ka plastikan talaga?

Yung tipong boss pero parang ang bobo ng dating nila?

Yung tipong boss mo pero ilalaglag ka?

Yung tipong boss na hindi marunong tingnan ang effort ng emplayado nya?

Yung tipong boss na hnd kaya tanggapin ang mali?

Yung tipong boss na masyadong feelingero / feelingera?

Yung tipong boss na ayaw nalalamangan ng subordinates nya?

well, YUN SILA!

Isang mapait na karanasan ko sa dati kong company.

here is my experience:

I was assigned to do tasks that aren't for me. Meaning yung task ko is not for my assigned position. But It was Ok with me. I know hindi ko dn naman forte yon, pero I tried. I volunteer kung walang may available na gagawa. I stay late to make phone calls to our US counterparts.Kahit na pinapagalitan na ako ng tatay ko kasi sobra dose oras na ako sa office (workaholic dba? actually hindi nagfafacebook lang yan. hehehe joke.) Nagseset ako ng time para matawagan ang taga US kahit na hindi ko naman task yun, at hindi ko rin concerns ang issues na I need to convey or to verify. Sa kanila yun, pero dahil yung ibang kasama ko may mga gagawin or needs to go early, inaako ko na. And it isn't even charged as OT or offset. Thank You lang. Free efforts nga.

And actually hindi sya ang boss ko. Kundi yung dev lead. Under parin ako sa dev lead and the product manager. And I was not even part of their team, kasi QA sila, at ako dapat under sa dev lead (paulit-ulit parang sirang plaka..)

I can't say I was stubborn kasi lahat naman ng sinasabi gnagawa ko. kahit not part of the office task like bumili ng ice cream kahit tirik ang araw at maglalakad lang ginagawa ko.

Then came the time hindi na sya namamansin. Lahat ng katabi ko pinapansin nya. Ako lang hindi. Hindi rin nya ako sinasama sa meeting. Hindi rin nya ako sinasama sa mga calls. Before all these sinabihan nya ako na ibabalik na daw nya ako sa boss ko.   that I'll be doing BA work na. That I need to email the product manager for my task. At natuwa naman ako dun kasi yun talaga ang gusto ko at yun naman talaga ng position ko.

I felt weird that day na napansin ko dinaanan lang nya ako at yung next sakin and so on na mga kahelera ko, na kasama ko sa task pinansin nya isa isa. Tinatawag by name at MALAKAS ang boses na parang nagpapapansin. Na napansin ko namn..I didn't mind it. Hinayaan ko lang. Ilang days dumaan na paulit ulit same thing and i felt really weird na talaga. Na something is wrong. And a month before my 6th month tinawag ako ng HR.

Sabi nya ibibigay na daw nya ang Evaluation ko. and the sad part is. "I FAILED."

and I said, "How?" and.. "ah.. OK.."
parang yun lang nasabi ko.
Tiningnan ko ang evaluation shit, este sheet na nakaka bullshit talaga!

Binasa ko ang evaluation sakin. isa lang ang pasado ko. at 5 pa. A 1-10 rating..  that is my Communication skills. Pasang-awa.. sabi I have good communication skills daw kasi may Call center training ako. Punuri nga pero binawi pa!!! I greatly disagree sa sinabi na yun. I talk and speak this way dahil ganito talaga ako. before I had a chance to work sa call center ganito na talaga ako magsalita. May accent, sabi nga nila. and I did not get that from call center training (Kaya nga ang dami kung fans! Charz! kahit ang amboy na Fiance ng ate ko natutuwa dn sakin magsalita! Naks! magka-accent kami? ahihihi) Wla akong 1month sa work na yun kasi I find it really boring.
Yun lang talaga ang positive. Negative is hindi ko daw kaya ang QA task at hnd daw ako keen sa details. etc.

Binasa ko ang scoring ng evaluation.
10 which is the highest. 1 the lowest.

cleanliness = 2

willingness to accept task = 2

friendliness =3

Ibig sabihin mataray ata ako, dugyot na tao, at tamad!!
Hind ko tlaga matanggap yun!
Ako na nagvovolunteer to do task na assigned sa iba?
Ako Dugyot? Malinis ang mesa ko! at hnd ako nagkakalat! At malinis ako!!! Naliligo ako araw-araw!
Hindi friendly? Lahat sa office Ok ako, except sa kanya at sa sidekick nya na hindi namamansin.Na feelingera din na may ugaling kalye na feeling rich at na feeling maganda sa long hair nya, Pero bobo naman! super!!! (na ha-highblood tuloy ako. inhale. exhale..)

"Ano to?" sabi ko lng sa sarili ko.
Hindi yun about QA. pero kahit yun bagsak ako? Hinayaan ko nalang lahat. I was given a month nalang to find a job. meaning tanggal na talaga ako sa work. What did I do wrong to deserve this?(drama)

Nagtanong sakin ang HR kung nasabi na sakin yun, kung na explain naba yun sakin. Sabi ko I dont have any idea about it, At bakit ganun ang nakuha ko. Ni hindi manlang ini-explain sakin bakit yun lang ang score ko.

2 weeks after, kinausap ko ang dev lead namin.(magpapaalam na ako. sad =( ) I asked kung alam ba nya na mag end na ako. sad is WALA SYANG IDEA!!!!. Nagulat sya ng sinabi ko. I told him everything. At hnd ko na napigilan, umiiyak na ako. He said nagpasa rin daw sya ng rating nya, pero hindi na nabigay sakin yun. It's as if hindi nagmatter ang kanyang decisions. Which to him, I passed, and its was all Ok kasi unti unti ko nang nakakabisado ang system, pero wla na rin sya magawa dun, tsaka nag perma na rin ako na mag end na ako.

A day before sa last day ko, kinausap ako ng hitad na Boss na naglaglag sakin. Asking me baka nagalit daw ako. at baka sumama daw loob ko, (Like hello! Sino ba hindi? e hindi nga makatarungan ang ginagawa nya.) Ako dahil mabait masyado,(yes it's trulalu!!) sabi ko lang Ok lang po. And she told me na inutusan lang daw sya na i-rate ako. Pero alam nya daw na hindi naman daw dapat sya ang mag rate.(HINDI NAMAN TALAGA!!!!) Ang plastic nya! sobrang plastic nya!!! (inhale... exhale..) Marami na syang ginanun na QA, those na hnd nya feel ibabagsak nya.. pero ok lang. what is done is done.

to be continued....

para sa isa pang suck ass boss..

Duster

Habang naglalakad ako kanina from Edsa Ayala, binaybay ang Ayala Ave, patungo Dela Rosa.. At ng maka abot ako ng SPI Makai, doon ko naramdaman ang masarap na ihip ng hangin sa aking pisngi, sa aking balat. And then I realized pawis na pawis na pala ako. Sino ba naman hindi mapapawisan sa init at sa layo ng lalakarin. At mas lalong papawisan ka ng bongga pag nagmamadali ka. mabilis na lakad na animoy walking run.. Pero inisasaisip ko lang na exercise ko ito. Para naman hindi sumama ang loob ko. Nakatipid kana, nag exercise kapa. Bongga!

At dahil narasapan ako sa hangin, at napansin ko ang aking pawis naisipan ko na gumamit ng footbridge instead na maglakad sa baba. At nang pa akyat ako ng footbridge nag sisipol ako. Animoy tumatawag sa hangin. Hindi naman ganun ka effective pero prang nakaugalian ko na mag sipol pag naiinitan. And I continue walking.. and I realized.. Maganda pala gumamit ng footbridge lalo na yung may cover, aside sa hnd ka maiinitan, ang hangin naman ay tumutuyo sa pawisan mong katawan... isama mo na ang pawisan na kili-kili.. Yes! tinataas-taas ko ang aking kamay para namn pumasok ang hangin sa aking sleeves at syempre.. matuyo kahit onti ang aking namamasang kili-kili... And I suddenly thought.. Gusto ko mag suot ng duster.. yung presko.. yung cotton.. yung malamig suotin... at naisip ko.. sana.. pwede magduster sa office. Kung pwede lang talaga magsusuot ako. Yung parang feeling mo summer lang na naglalakad ka at nagsto-strolling.. pero actually papunta talaga ng office. Presko ang feeling at magaan.

Kelan kaya magiging pwede ang duster sa Office?

Tawa Much to myself

Natatawa naman ako sa sarili ko habang tumutug-tug ang aking best friend Mp3 sayaw playlist..

parang napapaindak aking whole body. Hahah.. lalo na ng tumugtug ang Mundian To Bach Ke (yung bilog ang mundo tawag ng iba, yung sa ads ng Ginebra dati). Parang nagpupumiglas ang aking bewang para gumiling-giling. Hahahah…

At ng tumugtog naman ang Apologize ng Timbaland, ang aking leeg naman parang na exorcist hnd napipigilan gumalaw. Haha. To the left to the right ang movement ng aking beloved neck. Hahaha… parang gusto sana mag Indian movement. Nyahahaha… so nahiya naman ako sa aking neck movement kaya ng shake2 nalang ako ng aking hand.. left hand.. hahahaha.. waaaaaaaaaaaaah!!!

At ng tumugtug naman ang Buttons ng Pusy Cat Dolls.. Aba! Parang gusto kung tumayo at gawin ang steps na naaalala ko..

Parang gusto ko mag shake2! As in shake shake to the left to the left at to the right to the right…

Naman!!! Pigil na pigil ako.. na feeling ko e sayaw na sayaw na ang aking bodylicious! Hahaha

Wala lang.. gusto ko lang ishare.. hehehe

Faded…..

 { January 24, 2008 @ 5:12 am }

now i don’t feel like it.
I seem not to miss it.
it’s like i don’t want it anymore.
I don’t have the longing.
the wanting is gone.
the need is not felt anymore.
not like before….
that I seem to miss it,
it’s like everyday I’m longing for it..
wanting it..
missing it.
but now those feelings are gone.
slowly dying….
I’m losing them.
bits by bits..
slowly fading away…..

HELP ME.. I’M SINKING…

{ January 20, 2008 @ 8:07 am }

i’m so not feeling good right now. there are lots of things running in my head. i’m confused, i’m scared, i’m worried, terrified. i really dont know what to do. for now, i feel like i wanna be in a far far place. be alone, with nobody, nothing, only by myslef. i feel calm outside, but deep inside me… i’m in a state of confusion, exhaustion, unrest. i dont know.  i wanna  act on things, but i’m scared of the outcome it may  bring out.  i’m afraid to take steps.. i’m afraid i might be doing the wrong thing again.
i guess from the start, i already made a wrong decision. and from that wrong decision, i am suffering this things right now. i dont know. i want to let go.. but i cant, i just cant. i feel like i’m tied in it….. i cant loose. i cant be free… i’m stuck…. i’m just sinking… sinking… deeper.. deeper.. and way way deeper..
i guess i’ll never get out of this. i’ll never ever have the chance to be free.. this will just consume me… eat me.. swallow me… this will be apart of me.. forever. consuming my whole being..
i just cant free myself. i dont know how. i wanted to.. but i just cant. no matter how i tried,.. i cant. i’m afraid to take action. i’m afraid. scared. terrified… unrest…

help me… help me.. i’m consumed….. i’m going deeper…. so deep……. i can never free myself from this abyss… i’m just sinking… just sinking…. lower.. deeper….

WHAT THE?!!!

 { January 14, 2008 @ 5:02 am }

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What the f*** is wrong with me?

Do You know? Can you please tell me?!

I now don’t understand myself.

So Stupid that’s what I felt.

But I thank the way you try to understand.

Even though it’s not what your heart commands.

But for all this I have discovered

You’re love for me uncovered

I’ve seen that you are really True.

And more and more I’m loving you.

This may sound so corny.

So stupid you may know.

But I tell you I’m not emo.

It’s just that I’m loving you so.

~kOtitOt~

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FOR WHAT I’VE DONE

{ January 14, 2008 @ 4:38 am }

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Now I’m feeling blue,

Because I don’t want to lose you

I’m missing you a lot right now,

But, promise I won’t break my vow.

I’m hoping you won’t change,

And your love still be the same.

Begging for you to wait for me,

And love me as you would be.

I’m deeply sorry for what I’ve done

Admit the mistake that I begun.

I know I am wrong.

And forgiveness is what I long.

I’m hoping you’ll forgive me,

And wishing that you can see

How crushed I am inside

Feeling I’m trying to hide.

Please love me still

Like you did before

I beg you now.

And I’ll beg for more.

This poem will now end

Hoping to see you again.

Yearning it to be soon

I’m sending my wish to the moon.

I’M SO SORRY

~kOtitOt~

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Being with YOU

{ September 10, 2008 @ 5:04 pm } 

Sinking and faded i was once,

thinking of things i should have not done.

feeling so restless and so blue,

i felt so down and not so true.

Struggling i was for i cannot think well

trying to break the casted spell.

my heart crush and tortured

bleeding and un-nurtured.

The time that i was so down and low,

I thank God for bringing you so.

Made me think more postively

makes me love my life greatly.

You brougth happines to me

I really enjoy your company.

You never promised me anything,

but your actions speaks so promising.

You made me laugh and smile

Acts i will never lose awhile.

thinking of all the moments be ours all the time

Being with you i want for a lifetime.

REaLIzATION

{ February 19, 2009 @ 9:53 pm } 


hmmmm.. dugay mn ko wla ka post ba….
It’s been quite awhile that i had a chance to visit my blog.
despite of the busy(echos) schedule and lots of paper works to do, i again got the chance to pour my thoughts out here in my blog page.I just realized lots of things after a long while of observing.
there are still many people who kept on coming to you when they need you, but in the end you’ll see that they are not even thankful about it. It’s like they’re just taking you for granted. Although i don’t give much attention to it, it just seems so sad that your efforts were still useless. Not that your trying to make them count, the thing i just want to consider is what I call gratitude. A little appreciation wont hurt. But admiration for what others did will actually boost them and let them continue doing what they do best.I do believe many will agree on that.for all the experience i had in my college life, the org, my classmates, all the activities and other extra curricular, i guess as what some of my classmates just said and my mom as well, i really did let others depend on me too much, instead of teaching them or letting them do their task, i guess i was too nice to even do it for them instead of just guiding them.In fact, we’re the same busy students, yet i get to do the task not intended for me, and set a side my priorities for them to be accommodated.. ones is enough, twice is too much. Not that helping is wrong, but letting them depend on you and making you do most of the work intended for them is the one that’s not right. I already graduated from college yet, i’m still binded to it. Thinking it will be appreciated, with the heat of the sun, the waste of money, waste of time, my mother scolding, and others telling me the same thing just like before, letting them depend. I guess not everyone knows how to appreciate. But for all those, and for quite a long time, this is the only time i realize, i really need to learn my lesson, and well, keeping a bit of a wooden heart for all the begging and the favors. Saying NO, must be a NO and not a yes or an OK…
again.. a Lesson learned.. SAY NO…